The Questions

• When did you start trying?


• Why do you have to do IVF?


• When did you start fertility treatment?


• So is it, like, really hard and stuff?


• Why hasn't it worked?


• Why don't you just adopt?


• Won't you end up having a whole litter of babies all at once?


• Can you tell me what makes sense about moving to Singapore in the midst of all this?


• So... what's the procedure then?
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• Why don't you do IVF in Singapore?


• Why don't you take a break?


• Isn't it a bit expensive?


• Does infertility increase your moral obligations with respect to any of the following problems: child poverty; the depletion of the earth's resources; the passage of inferior genes from one generation to the next?


• Isn't there a point beyond which doing more IVF is just a bit... sad and desperate?


• Will you freak out if I announce my pregnancy and/or child's birth to you?


• Gosh, well now I feel all awkward. What should I say?


• Why can't you commit to anything at the moment?


• Have you got any other links I can look at?

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